The Office of a Wife
One of the most devastating events in life is divorce! It is a difficult and painful time, not only for those involved but for loved ones as well. Nothing is ever truly right for a long time after the failure of a marriage no matter how much each partner is at fault.
There are many ways in which divorce can be prevented. The most important among these is how a husband relates to his wife.
Scripture tells us that she is to submit to her husband and to respect him. Scripture doesn’t stop here however. It lays an even greater responsibility on her husband. He is to love her and care for her as Christ loved His bride the church. Even though she is not perfect, a husband must place her above all other things, above his own wants and desires just as Christ did for His bride. He willingly gave up His own life so that she could stand before God pure and blemish free.
When a husband can do this, then he makes it possible for her to willingly obey God’s will for her in the marriage.
Scripture: Ephesians 5